Come see us in our natural habitats!


Friday March 31th- Port Bar, 2023 N. Broadway St. Oakland CA
Saturday April 15th- GHT Spring Campout, Upper Lake CA
Friday April 21st- Port Bar, 2023 N. Broadway St. Oakland CA
Friday May 12th- TBA, Oakland CA
Friday May 19th- TBA, Oakland CA
Sunday May 28th- TBA, Detroit MI


Saturday April 1st- TBA, Victoria BC
Friday April 7th- Mirage @ Oasis, San Francisco CA
Saturday April 15th- Sundown Saturday, San Francisco CA
Friday April 28th- Muka, San Francisco CA
Friday May 6th- Disco Dining Club, Los Angeles CA


Saturday March 18th- Monarch, San Francisco CA


THE MODERN WEDDING DJ- a little history

Right around the Spring of 2005, a good friend and incredibly talented open-format DJ based in Chicago by the name of Spencer Lokken noticed a growing trend amongst his friends- they were asking him to please, PLEASE DJ their wedding. All of the companies they had interviewed featured cheesy button-pushers, completely uninterested in playing anything more than the old standby’s and tired anthems. They came complete with all of the bells and whistles, yet when it came time to the meat and bones of the reception they always seemed to fall flat, leaving an uninspired dance floor to hobble along until last call. Living in Chicago- birthplace of House Music, training ground for the world’s best and brightest- he knew the wedding DJ bar was set much lower than most of our particular demographic was used to. So he got serious.

Our big-sister company, Style Matters DJs got its start in the Summer of 2006, doing a small handful of weddings that year. Our concept was very simple- take our knowledge and expertise in the club realm, and apply it to special events and wedding receptions. The response was swift and overwhelmingly positive. People who had never heard the terms Backspin, Beatmatch or Hot Mix were marveling at the DJs ability to keep the music going so fluidly. Guests were pleasantly surprised at the inclusion of artists such as Radiohead, Bjork, Charles Mingus and Thievery Corporation during cocktails and dinner. They couldn’t believe they had just made it through a wedding without hearing YMCA or Love Shack. And so our company grew, employing more and more DJs as the years go by.

Currently Style Matters Chicago employs almost 30 DJs and is capable of handling up to 20 events per night on the busiest weekends. They have also opened their first full-service venue, Ovation, which is located in the near west side of Chicago and features (among other things) a state-of-the-art Void sound system, video wall, color photo booth, Steinway grand piano, full catering kitchen, green rooms for the wedding party and a restored 1959 Rolls Royce chauffeur service for the happy couple. Although we doubt we’ll reach those lofty heights any time soon, we hope to expand much in the same way over the next few years and are incredibly lucky to have such a great blueprint for success at our fingertips. We’ve tweaked that framework just a little bit to create our own version of the perfect unique boutique wedding DJ company- one that can handle every aspect from prelude to last call and create one of the most memorable and sweat-filled dancefloors you and your guests have ever seen.

So what ARE the needs of today’s modern couple when it comes to selecting a great DJ? Well, here is a list of things we’ve taken into account based on our observations. These are the cornerstones of our business.

  • The desire to create a custom tailored music program based on the client’s tastes
  • An ability to blend music to make it seamless
  • The ability to read a crowd and choose music accordingly
  • A solid knowledge of live sound and the ability to manage multiple sound systems
  • A deep knowledge of many different musical styles, genres and time periods
  • Exemplary customer service and communication skills
  • Lightning fast response times
  • The ability to plan sufficiently in advance, and a willingness to learn the venue beforehand
  • A cool temper and ability to solve problems in the moment
  • A lengthy resumé of actual dance club experience and preferably continuing employment in the club industry

We here at Caliber are dedicated to helping you find the best vendors for YOU. Don’t hesitate to send us a note if you have any questions about what to look for in DJs or other wedding professionals!!



Over the last few years we’ve had the opportunity to work at dozens of incredibly lovely venues. But there are a few that really stick out in our mind as spaces that go above and beyond to accommodate guests while providing a stunning backdrop for which to celebrate your most special of days. Here’s a short list of places we’ve been to that set the standard for sophisticated, unique and downright impressive ceremony and reception spots. These recommended venues are all capable of accommodating your ceremony, cocktails, dinner and dancing on site.


The SHED, Healdsburg CA ( ) – a 2014 James Beard Award winner for Restaurant Design, this stunning 2-story space in the heart of Healdsburg has many faces- specialty cookware supply store, café, organic market, local wine purveyor. Their ethos is simple- source the best possible ingredients from local farms and create an unforgettable dining experience for all who enter. But it’s the 2,700 square foot open-air 2nd floor Grange, capable of seating 125 and complete with a side wall projection screen & A/V inputs that seals the deal for us. The massive sliding wooden wall on one side retreats to reveal a state of the art kitchen that is more than capable of wowing your guests with its presentation and culinary output. Recently the venue has paired with the renowned Paul Mahder Gallery (just a short walk away) to offer all-in-one ceremony and reception packages.


Paradise Ridge Winery, Santa Rosa CA ( ) – Nestled in the hills of Santa Rosa, we first stumbled upon Paradise Ridge in the fall of 2014 and it has since been not only one of our favorite venues to work at, but it also produces some of our favorite wines with their Sauvignon Blanc and Rockpile “Posse” Blend leading a very strong pack. This venue not only has the advantage of offering multiple areas in which to entertain your guests (including a fantastic ceremony space for about a hundred), but also some ridiculously beautiful scenery compliments of the surrounding area and grounds themselves. It is storied that the original founder of the winery, Marijke Byck-Hoenselaars, promised his love he would build a sculpture garden upon arrival on this site. And build it he did, enlisting multiple artists (including the famous Burning Man Temple designer David Best) to contribute pieces which dot the entire property. This contributes to an absolutely beautiful, classy-yet-whimsical setting.


Brazilian Room at Tilden Park, Berkeley CA ( ) - This venue is a favorite of ours for a few reasons- the gorgeous backdrop for a wedding ceremony, the easy accessibility for guests (no stairs to deal with!), the comfy coziness of the rustic, almost log-cabin-like main dining and reception hall (complete with fireplace). It’s also pretty easy on the wallet as well, being one of the more affordable venues for the couple on a tighter budget. Just make sure you lock the address into your GPS before heading to the venue, as its somewhat-remote location lends itself to lack of cell reception at times. Luckily, there is free WIFI for those of you who feel the need to live-Tweet the day.


The Thomas Fogarty Winery, Woodside CA ( ) – The Santa Cruz Mountains are home to this iconic winemaker which specializes primarily in Chardonnay and Pinot Noir. Their venue, capable of handling up to 216 guests, is one of the more impressive venues we’ve seen in wine country and offers state of the art accommodation against the backdrop of their beautiful Damiana Chardonnay Vineyard. Hilltop placement makes for a stunning ceremony space with near-360 degree views and their 4,000 square foot hillside pavilion and corresponding “Hill House” indoor cocktail lounge/dance floor create a warm and inviting atmosphere for all.


SSS Ranch, Calistoga CA ( ) A very new addition to the Napa Valley venue list, this space is actually SO new that they were still completing construction on a significant portion of the property when we visited in late February! But what we saw was enough to leave us not only drooling over the property, but having our own fantasies of weekend-long family reunions and friendly get-togethers. What makes this place so amazing? For starters, it sleeps 30. That’s right, 30. Between the quaintest bungalows we’ve ever seen to the historic grand Victorians you’ll have more than enough room to spread out. It has a large in-ground pool and infinity hot-tub. The ceremony space, a lovely old tree which serves as the matriarch of the property, has a dedicated power line running out to it making amplification a piece of cake. And the owners have gone to great lengths to maintain the old world charm of the entire property through painstaking restoration and maintenance. This place is still relatively under-the-radar so make sure to inquire before word starts getting out!

Triple S Ranch Napa Sonoma Pictures from Magic Flute on Vimeo.



We’re excited to unveil a new look and an updated brand for 2017! This endeavor started out as a simple one-man operation in the Summer of 2013. Since then we’ve become a trusted favorite among industry veterans, happy couples and corporate clients across the board. We’ve undergone a much-needed expansion to handle the demand and are looking forward to making an incredible party happen for you and your guests this season! Part of this is our new website overhaul which now features direct Yelp reviews, photos, bio info, mixes and more. Feel free to look around and let us know if you have any questions! We cannot give enough thanks to the many wonderful planners, venue representatives, satisfied couples and party hosts who have put their trust in us to make their day memorable and can’t wait to create a custom day for you and yours. Cheers!

Nate Seider
Owner- Caliber DJs